Tim Baker

Tonight was dinner-with-dad at Chik-Fil-A. My kids are just too wonderful. Jacob and I did our buddy handshake about ten times throughout dinner. And we all laughed as Coley and Jess sang Veggie Tale songs. It’s good to be with the kids and not feel stress about anything. Sometimes, when you’re a parent, you can be around your kids, but never really see them. I remember countless times when I’ve been around my kids…even near them for an entire afternoon, but I’ve never really seen them. I’ve not realized their beauty or creativity. I’ve missed their wonderfulness. Tonight, I was completely aware of how wonderful my kids are. They are three individuals…they are not the same. They are fun and good and kind people too. Parents are supposed to love their kids, I guess. But I love my kids because of who they are. They are good people.

It’s a challenge, I guess, to be the best steward we can be of what God has given us.

Fifteen years ago today, I asked Jacqui to marry me. I knelt behind a stage where thousands had knelt for years accepting Christ or standing to cheering on their favorite rock group. I took her out for the best meal I could afford and gave her the most expensive ring my finances would allow. I still remember how her face looked, just across the table from me and lit only by a single candle. I still remember how scared and excited I felt, knowing that this woman had claimed me as her future husband.

Fifteen years ago feels like yesterday. What will life be like fifteen years from now? I’ll be fatter, I’m sure. Balder too. But, Lord willing, I’ll still be married to that girl who dared to say yes. And, we’ll still be working hard to be God honoring stewards of our three precious gifts.